Storytelling The Musical Follies

Every group that’s been around for a while starts to accumulate traditions. Special activities and treasured events become part of the fabric of a thriving organization. This is true for Better Said Than Done, and our next show brings the third installment of one of our favorites.

This Thursday, September 14th at 8:00 P.M. Eastern time join BSTD for an online extravaganza and the third installment of our tuneful series – Storytelling The Musical Follies! Jessica Robinson emcees the evening, and the musically talented cast consists of Angela Lloyd, Andy Offutt Irwin, Andy Russell, Ria Spencer, and Jude Treder-Wolff!

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For this show I wanted to find out a little about our tellers’ personal musical journeys, so I asked them this:

Name three pieces of music that have influenced or inspired you.

Here’s what they shared…

Angela Lloyd

Angela Lloyd

 1. (in utero) Caroline Lloyd – Live on the Steinway grand piano, composing melodies, setting Latin american poets’ verses for a mezzo soprano voice 

2. 1957 Double Album, Music For Children, Carl Orff w/ Gunild Keetman, AOSA.org, American Orff Schulwerk Association

3. Miriam Makeba, Pata Pata

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Andy Offutt Irwin

Andy Offutt Irwin

“Quitting Time” by The Roches

“St James Infirmary” by Louis Armstrong

“Sing, Sing, Sing” by Benny Goodman


Jessica Robinson

Jessica Robinson

My first thought was of the Love and Rockets album “Express”. I listened to them on my walkman over and over as I skated around NYC in college, and on one awesome trip to Paris. I can hear Kundalini Express every time I think about skating in France.

Ani DiFranco got me through much of my 20s. I listened to “Untouchable Face,” over and over and over again, along with most of her songs from “Little Plastic Castles.”

Harry Nilsson and Harry Chapin sprang to mind next – my parents music, that I grew up with. But it was Harry Chapin who made me want to be an artist, or who at least made me think I could, or should, do it. I didn’t want to let my “Dreams Go By.”


Andrew Russell

Andrew Russell

“Take It Easy” by The Eagles – This album permeated my entire senior year in high school- band trips, dates, prom – you name it! And “Take It Easy” was my favorite cut on the album.

“What A Wonderful World” by Louis Armstrong – I love Louis and New Orleans, but most of all the lyrics paint such a wonderful, uplifting view of the world. This one never lets me down.

“Did She Mention My Name?” by Gordon Lightfoot – Love this song on its own, but I learned so much from studying the lyrics. This could so easily have been another “I love you, I miss you, I want you back” song, but instead it is subtle, wistful and understated. Wonderful stuff.


Ria Spencer

Ria Spencer

Earth Wind and Fire’s “September” will always be a personal favorite. It takes me back to hanging out with all of my cousins in my grandparents back room as a little kid.

Prince’s “Controversy” album. Have to say the entire album because from start to finish the album rocked my world. I even remember what I was wearing when I bought it.

Parliament’s “Aqua Boogie (A Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop)”. A seminal track in the all-time funk cannon. And Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop was also the name of my college radio show.


Jude Treder-Wolff

Jude Treder-Wolff

Joni Michell’s “Both Sides Now” – first and mainly because she was the iconic female singer/songwriter of my generation, and the song that literally shifted my perspective on life was Both Sides Now. I love that every verse ends with “I really don’t know clouds/love/life at all” and that perspective made me think differently at a time I very much needed that open-ended way of thinking.

Beethoven’s “Fur Elise” – I was a piano player since age 6 and when I heard a piece of music that enchanted me I wanted to be able to play it as quickly as possible. I discovered that piece when I was 10 and had to work hard to learn the scales in the key of the song and practice so much to be able to play it. It inspired me to work hard and get better and I felt such a sense of satisfaction when I was able to play it after a few months of skill development.

“I Have A Dream” by Abba – that song became popular when I was at a crossroads in my life and had to decide if I should stay safe or take a big risk. Staying safe was attractive because I didn’t want to get hurt, be disappointed, fail, and make my life situation worse by taking the risk, but taking the risk was attractive because it had the potential to learn, expand, have adventure. That song felt like a message to follow the dream and I did! It was the right choice.


Now that you know what powers their love of music, come to the show and see how those inspirations power their performances. The Zoom room opens at 8:00, and the show starts directly thereafter. Standard ticket price is $16 dollars, with a $6 minimum contribution and options to show the tellers even more love.

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Storytelling – Now It’s Personal

We tell many kinds of stories here at Better Said Than Done. Some are epics that span decades. Others involve complex interconnected narratives. And every once and a while, we’ll indulge in some good-natured lying. But at the core, all the stories told here are personal. So this month, we’re turning our attention to fundamental principle.

This Thursday, August 10th at 8 P.M. Eastern, join BSTD online for Storytelling – Now It’s Personal. Yours truly Jack Scheer is the host this time out, and I’ll be shepherding six sensational tellers onto our streaming stage – Allen DeBey, Bonnie Gardner, Sam Pearsall, Jessica Robinson, Shani Womack, and Linda Yemoto!

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Since I’m both blogger and host for this show, I asked our tellers two questions related our theme. Their answers to the first question are below. And that question is…

What’s something many people find too personal to discuss that you have no problem talking about openly, and why?

And here’s how they responded…

Allen DeBey

Allen DeBey: What’s something many people find too personal to discuss that you have no problem talking about openly, and why? I have no problem talking about embarrassing things that have happened to me because afterwards they are funny like the time I slipped down 6 stairs and put my back in place. Yes, falling fixed my back rather than damaging it. 🙂

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Bonnie Gardner

Bonnie Gardner: How much I paid for something. I am a world-class bargain hunter, and I rarely buy anything that’s not on sale. So if you compliment anything I own or am wearing, the first words out of my mouth will be how much I paid for it, and how much I saved. And I’ll expect you to be impressed.


Sam Pearsall

Sam Pearsall: I was a bonafide freak in the 1960s and early 1970s (only straights called us hippies). I was actively engaged in the free speech, civil rights, and anti-war movements, and I smoked a lot of dope. Stoned as we were, we got a lot accomplished on those three fronts, and I am proud of my contributions – stoned as I was. I have many friends who were also freaks back in the day, but they don’t like to talk abut it. It mystifies me. Maybe that’s why we, as a society, are now losing ground on all three fronts for the first time in decades.


Jessica Robinson

Jessica Robinson: Sex. My parents were hippies, at least as far as sex was concerned. They both discussed it openly and often. I do think I have more of a filter than they did, especially since I am still a bit traumatized from all the things I had to hear about as a kid, but I forget sometimes that not everyone is okay with frank sex talk.


Shani Womack

Shani Womack: Menopause, racism, politics and religion. Talking about these topics regularly, especially the last three, takes away the anxiety and fear the topics sometimes produce. There is so much to learn and understand by listening to other peoples’ perspectives. Talking about these issues with mutual respect helps us find common ground and build bridges into new communities and diverse groups. It teaches us that we are more alike than we are different. And we are better together.


Linda Yemoto

Linda Yemoto: This has certainly changed over the years, when many people didn’t care about this topic, but I’ve always been willing to talk about climate change and other environmental issues.


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In the same vein as the first question, I also asked our tellers…

What’s something many people are comfortable talking about that you think is too personal for open discussion, and why?

Want to find out their responses to that query? Well, they will be revealed at the show! So join us on Thursday night. The stream starts at 8 P.M. EDT, and the show kicks off a couple minutes after that once the audience takes their virtual seats. Tickets start at $15 (with a $5 minimum option for the online show).

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Storytelling The Musical Follies

The recording of Storytelling the Musical Follies – with emcee Jessica Robinson and storytellers Angela Lloyd, Andy Offutt Irwin, Andy Russell, Ria Spencer, and Jude Treder-Wolff – is now available.

Find out about our storytellers’ musical inspirations here!

$15 Suggested/$5 Minimum
All Proceeds Split Between Producer and Storytellers
As people can watch the recording for up to one month after, ticket sales close on September 16th.
Your receipt reflects the date ticket sales close. The link to watch the show has the date and time of the show on it.
You will receive a link to watch the show moments after registering. If you do NOT see that email, first check your junk mail folder. If you still cannot find it, contact stories@bettersaidthandone.com BEFORE the show starts.

Online ticket sales for this event are closed.

In the “Buy Tickets” box, click on the amount you’d like to pay and then “add to cart.” At the top of the “Buy Tickets” box, a little box that says “Go to Cart” will appear. Click on that.
Confirm everything in your cart is correct. Click “Review Cart and Make Payment.” Then click on “Make Payment through Paypal.” That will take you to Paypal where you are given the choice to login to pay OR to pay with credit card.

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Pop Up Storytelling

There’s something exciting about a pop up venture. Be it a roadside stand, an impromptu concert in the park, or a come-as-you-are spontaneous party – a pop up has an energy and vibe all it’s own. It can be chill or electric, but it’s rarely if ever boring.

This Thursday, July 20th, we invite you to join us online for Pop Up Storytelling. It’s going to be a freewheeling night of tales hosted by our fearless (and award-winning!) leader, Jessica Robinson. Our cast of merry tellers is made up of Clint Atwater, Vicki Bryan, Claire Castell, Anne Shimojima, J. StarLitWriter, and little old me, Jack Scheer. The Zoom room opens around 8 P.M. Eastern and the show starts directly after.

Online tickets are available here!

In honor of this show’s loosey goosey theme, I put this question to our tellers and host…

What’s a favorite memory of doing something spontaneous?

Here’s what we had to say…

Clint Atwater

Clint Atwater: We were living in Michigan and decided to go to Sea World of Ohio for a long weekend.  I neglected to mention to my new bride that I planned on going to the amusement park on the second day.  Over breakfast, I discovered my bride didn’t enjoy amusement parks.  I told her we were halfway to Niagara Falls, and she responded, “Okay,” with a somewhat quizzical look.  I replied, “Well, we’re closer than ever.”

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Vicki Bryan

Vicki Bryan: I was walking to the W. 23rd Street and 8th Avenue subway station.  At 6th Avenue I saw an old friend I hadn’t seen in 10 years.  Standing on the corner chatting she mentioned she was coordinating a travel group to Bahia, Brazil. Couldn’t believe it! Bahia Brazil was on my dream trip list ever since I read an article in the National Geographic magazine.  Right then and there I wrote a check for my trip deposit.  Four months later I was in Bahia sipping a caipirinha on a terrace enjoying a breathtaking view of the city of Salvador.


Claire Castell

Claire Castell: I was at a Contra Dance at Stanford University.  The callers announced a dance camp up in Mendocino County that I really wanted to go to.  But I needed a cabin-mate to share costs. I had danced with a lovely man I just met, Paul, and asked him if he wanted to go with me. He agreed right away.  We went on to have a lovely week and a little romance.


Jessica Robinson

Jessica Robinson: My first thought was that I never do anything spontaneous. Then I thought, that can’t be right. So I tried to remember a time when I had done something spontaneous, like maybe in my youth. And then I remembered a couple of really bad things that came from me being a little spontaneous and decided none of those would be fun to share and so, yeah, I really don’t do spontaneity. But maybe now I will, so I’ll have an answer next time someone asks. It’s still spontaneous if I plan to do it, right?


Jack Scheer

Jack Scheer: My wife and I joined my parents for a vacation in Hawaii. One day, after a morning of breakfast and shopping, my mom needed a nap and my wife wanted to read by the pool. This left my dad and me watching TV. After about half an hour my dad said, “we flew a third of the way around the world to a tropical island and we’re sitting here watching old reruns.” So we decided to do something ourselves. We jumped in my rental convertible and drove up the coast, talking, stopping at any place that caught our fancy, and having a lovely unplanned afternoon.


Anne Shimojima

Anne Shimojima: In 1972, I graduated from college and my good friend, Suzy, and I, decided to go to Europe. We planned the trip carefully – two and a half weeks in Paris, Amsterdam, and London. We had all of our hotels/hostels reserved and we knew exactly where we would be on each day. But while we were in Paris, we suddenly realized that Switzerland was right next door so we decided to “run over” to Zurich. On the only full day we had there, we took a tour to Lucerne and the first mountains that I ever saw were the Swiss Alps – so breathtakingly beautiful! I thought, wow, no wonder people like mountains!


J. StarLitWriter

J. StarLitWriter: During a huge storm on a family cruise, I and my fellow teenage delinquent friends sneaked onto the ship’s top deck. It was closed because the wind was so strong that you couldn’t even walk straight. Then someone had a bright idea. That’s how I found myself sliding – on purpose – down the bow of the ship to the deck below as I came dangerously close to blowing off into the raging sea. So when someone asks, “Would you jump off a ship if all your friends were doing it?” I, unfortunately, have to answer yes.

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That’s your taste of the kind of spontaneity that might pop up Thursday night at 8 o’clock Eastern. Join us for a night that promises variety and good times! Tickets start at $15 (with a $5 minimum option for the online show).

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Personal Storytelling

The recording is now available for purchase. Watch emcee Jack Scheer and storytellers Allen DeBey, Bonnie Gardner, Sam Pearsall, Jessica Robinson, Shani Womack, and Linda Yemoto in “Now It’s Personal.” It’s all storytelling and all personal.

READ WHAT THE STORYTELLERS DON’T THINK IS TOO PERSONAL HERE.

$15 Suggested/$5 Minimum
All Proceeds Split Between Producer and Storytellers
As people can watch the recording for up to one month after, ticket sales close on August 13th.
Your receipt reflects the date ticket sales close. The link to watch the show has the date and time of the show on it.
You will receive a link to watch the show moments after registering. If you do NOT see that email, first check your junk mail folder. If you still cannot find it, contact stories@bettersaidthandone.com BEFORE the show starts.

Online ticket sales for this event are closed.

In the “Buy Tickets” box, click on the amount you’d like to pay and then “add to cart.” At the top of the “Buy Tickets” box, a little box that says “Go to Cart” will appear. Click on that.
Confirm everything in your cart is correct. Click “Review Cart and Make Payment.” Then click on “Make Payment through Paypal.” That will take you to Paypal where you are given the choice to login to pay OR to pay with credit card.

PLEASE NOTE the times on all our events are Eastern Time Zone (EDT or EST).

You should receive an email with the link within minutes of purchase. Please check your email to confirm.
If you do NOT see your login email, first check your Junk/SPAM folder. If still no email, contact stories (at) bettersaidthandone (dot) com
Make sure you have the link before the show. We will do our best to assist you, but once the show begins, we are no longer able to help.
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Jessica Robinson: ORACLE Award Winner!

It’s no secret that the folks here at Better Said Than Done love our fearless leader, Jessica Robinson. Since founding BSTD in 2011, Jessica has grown and fostered a wonderful community of diverse storytellers. She created the Women’s Storytelling Festival, the first of its kind, from whole cloth. She’s led us through venue changes, creative challenges, and a giant freaking pandemic. And she’s done it all with seemingly boundless energy and an unwavering smile.

So we are thrilled, but not at all surprised, that she is being honored for all that she does by the National Storytelling Network. Jessica’s being presented the 2023 ORACLE Award for Regional Service and Leadership in the Mid-Atlantic Region. The ORACLE Awards are presented annually by the NSN “to those who have excelled in their art, or made significant contributions to storytelling, NSN or its members.” The award ceremony will take place on July 15, on Zoom, at 3:15pm EDT. It is a FREE ceremony open to the public. Details and link to watch here.

Joining Jessica are Loralee Cooley, receiving the Regional Leadership and Service Award for the Southeast Region, and Dolores Hydock, who is being presented with the Circle of Excellence Award.

Jessica, Loralee and Dolores will receive their awards on July 15th at the NSN General Membership Meeting. The meeting and awards presentation will be followed by a storytelling performance. Even if you are not an NSN member, we encourage you all to attend via this free Zoom link. The Zoom room opens at 12:45 Eastern, with the meeting starting at 1 o’clock and the awards presentation slated for 3:15. Jessica, Dolores, and Loralee will each perform a story in a showcase starting at 4:15pm. All events use the same link.
(The NSN is on Central Time, so the times listed on the NSN page are 1 hour earlier than those listed here, in EDT.)

The troops here at BSTD couldn’t be prouder of our fearless, funny, fantastic leader. Come to the ceremony and help us celebrate Jessica and all she’s built and achieved!

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Pop Up Stories

The recording is now available. POP UP STORYTELLING, with emcee Jessica Robinson and storytellers Clint Atwater, Vicki Bryan, Claire Castell, Jack Scheer, Anne Shimojima, and J. StarLitWriter. Ticket sales close on July 23rd.

Read About the Storytellers “spur-of-the-moment” actions here!

$15 Suggested/$5 Minimum
All Proceeds Split Between Producer and Storytellers
As people can watch the recording for up to one month after, ticket sales close on July 23rd.
Your receipt reflects the date ticket sales close. The link to watch the show has the date and time of the show on it.
You will receive a link to watch the show moments after registering. If you do NOT see that email, first check your junk mail folder. If you still cannot find it, contact stories@bettersaidthandone.comeipt reflects the date ticket sales close. The link to watch the show has the date and time of the show on it.
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Online ticket sales for this event are closed.

In the “Buy Tickets” box, click on the amount you’d like to pay and then “add to cart.” At the top of the “Buy Tickets” box, a little box that says “Go to Cart” will appear. Click on that.
Confirm everything in your cart is correct. Click “Review Cart and Make Payment.” Then click on “Make Payment through Paypal.” That will take you to Paypal where you are given the choice to login to pay OR to pay with credit card.

PLEASE NOTE the times on all our events are Eastern Time Zone (EDT or EST).

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Not Personal Stories

The recording is now available to watch emcee Jessica Robinson and storytellers Janel Behm, Calvin S. Cato, Heather Forest, Linda Schuyler Ford, Laura Simms, and Linda Yemoto in “Nothing Personal.” It’s storytelling, just nothing personal.

June 8, 2023
8:00pm EDT/5:00pm PDT
$15 Suggested/$5 Minimum
All Proceeds Split Between Producer and Storytellers
As people can watch the recording for up to one month after, ticket sales close on June 11th.
Your receipt reflects the date ticket sales close. The link to watch the show has the date and time of the show on it.
You will receive a link to watch the show moments after registering. If you do NOT see that email, first check your junk mail folder. If you still cannot find it, contact stories@bettersaidthandone.com

Online ticket sales for this event are closed.

In the “Buy Tickets” box, click on the amount you’d like to pay and then “add to cart.” At the top of the “Buy Tickets” box, a little box that says “Go to Cart” will appear. Click on that.
Confirm everything in your cart is correct. Click “Review Cart and Make Payment.” Then click on “Make Payment through Paypal.” That will take you to Paypal where you are given the choice to login to pay OR to pay with credit card.

Please Note

PLEASE NOTE the times on all our events are Eastern Time Zone (EDT or EST).

You should receive an email with the link within minutes of purchase. Please check your email to confirm.

If you do NOT see your login email, first check your Junk/SPAM folder. If still no email, contact stories (at) bettersaidthandone (dot) com

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Auld Lang Shebeen

On April 22nd Better Said Than Done will be performing for the last time – for the time being – in front of a live, in-person audience. We will be going on hiatus at least for the next few months – from in-person storytelling. The Auld Shebeen, which has been our home for over 7 years, can no longer host us on Saturday nights. So, for the next few months, we will be searching for a new home.

Please join us – one last time – as we raise a glass of Guinness and toast Sláinte!
April 22nd, 2023, at 6:00pm Eastern.
(Note the special time. Doors open at 5pm and the show is at 6pm.)

Details and Tickets Here

We’ve loved our time at the Auld Shebeen and plan to continue to host the occasional storytelling show there, as well as special events. This is not goodbye to the boys. It’s just a fare thee well. But as our fond farewell show, we do want to have some fun. And to that note, we’ve brought back some of our favorite storytellers – both old (Jack Scheer has been with us for FOREVER) and new (Seth Hassett performed with us for the first time 2 months ago) – for Auld Lange Syne: stories old and new.

If you’ve been with us for FOREVER, come on back, one last time. If you are new to storytelling, or to our shows, join us for the fantastic night. Old and new – all are welcome!

With emcee Jessica Robinson and storytellers Bonnie Gardner, Seth Hassett, Jenn Kamara, Jack Scheer, Kathy Stershic, and Andrea Young.

Not that you need the refresher, but here are the night’s storytellers:

Emcee Jessica Robinson
Bonnie Gardner
Seth Hassett
Jenn Kamara
Jack Scheer
Kathy Stershic
Andrea Young

It’s going to be a fabulous night of looking back, remembering old friends, making new, and sharing stories. Join us on April 22, 2023 at 6:00pm Eastern for Auld Lang Syne!
Sláinte!

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Auld Lang Syne

The Recording of Auld Lang Syne: Stories of Old and New,with emcee Jessica Robinson and storytellersBonnie Gardner, Seth Hassett, Jenn Kamara, Jack Scheer, Kathy Stershic, and Andrea Young, is now available for purchase.

Read more about the show and the storytellers here.

The Auld Shebeen is located at 3971 Chain Bridge Rd., Fairfax, VA 22030.
Better Said Than Done performs DOWNSTAIRS. The entrance is located on North St. Doors open at 5:00pm. The live show starts at 6:00pm.
A full dinner and bar menu are available.

Saturday, April 13, 2023
6:00pm Show Starts/5:00pm Doors Open
$15 Per Person/$5 Minimum Virtual
Tickets are divided into virtual ONLY – for watching online
When you purchase a ticket, you will receive an email that will include a link to watch the live-stream, whether or not you are coming to the live show. If you purchase an “in-person” ticket, your name will be entered on the list at the door. You do not get a physical ticket.
You should receive a link to watch the streaming video shortly after purchase. If you do not see that email, please contact stories@bettersaidthandone.com BEFORE 6pm on the day of the show.
Ticket sales for the in-person show close when we sell out or when the show starts. However, you will be able to purchase the recording of the show until 11:59pm on the Sunday after. Your receipt will reflect that date.
PLEASE NOTE: We recommend you get tickets in advance. If we do not sell out, we’ll have tickets available at the door for $15 per person.

Online ticket sales for this event are closed.

In the “Buy Tickets” box, click on the amount you’d like to pay and then “add to cart.” At the top of the “Buy Tickets” box, a little box that says “Go to Cart” will appear. Click on that.
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After purchase, you will receive 2 emails. One will be your receipt, the other will have the link to watch the show.
If you don’t see the link to watch the show – check your junk folder. If you still don’t see it, email stories@bettersaidthandone.com BEFORE the show starts. We cannot respond to emails during the show.
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